"If you are going to buy only one book on social anxiety, this is it. This book that not only compassionately presents various perspectives on social anxiety, but it also offers a vast array of solutions. It turned out to be more of a "self help" book than I expected in more areas than just shyness. The author had experience in social anxiety, so he really hit home with things he expressed. I was able to finally overcome my social anxiety thanks to this book!"
-Drew
Initiating conversation with total strangers is risky. There is no way you can cover all the variables. In my case, I tend to maintain cautious optimism until Im certain Ive figured someone out - keeping the conversation light and my escape route easy. If the individual turns out to be someone I hadnt counted on, I politely excuse myself - no harm done. The worst that could happen here is mild embarrassment. (more…)
Getting to know people before initiating a conversation is not always practical. More often than not, it is a combination of the persons appearance and mannerisms combined with a simple gut instinct. There is never really enough time to get to know someone before talking to them. That would require a conversation - quite a paradox. (more…)
