Comments on: Do Looks Matter? http://shyandquiet.com/2008/06/06/do-looks-matter/ Social Anxiety Disorder And Everyday Life Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:34:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Kitty http://shyandquiet.com/2008/06/06/do-looks-matter/#comment-25018 Kitty Sat, 30 Aug 2008 06:40:44 +0000 http://shyandquiet.com/?p=252#comment-25018 The truth is that women are more focused on personality, strength and success when it comes to men. A man can be average and be more attractive then a supermodel because he may have more sex appeal and have a stronger appearance that leads a woman to feel protected. Look around how many beautiful women do you see with average guys. We are not into just a pretty face... I prefer a man who has sex appeal and confidence. Keep yourself clean and work on the confidence.. which I know doesn't come easy for us with SA. If a man doesn't have a job or aspiring to do something to financially stabilize himself which will stabilize a future family..Hello.. a woman is going to reject that man. As long as a man is working hard, standing up straight with confidence and knows what he wants in this life... they will all come running. Women love eccentricity...the exciting ones, anyway.. Take that SA and be mysterious and sexy...be spontaneous and creative. Don't come off as desperate... hang back until you are comfortable to get close..women like that. Men are lucky! men could be fat or funny looking.. if they are funny or have a great personality they could have a beautiful woman. Don't worry one day you will find someone that will love you unconditionally and she will be that someone you actually want. The truth is that women are more focused on personality, strength and success when it comes to men. A man can be average and be more attractive then a supermodel because he may have more sex appeal and have a stronger appearance that leads a woman to feel protected. Look around how many beautiful women do you see with average guys. We are not into just a pretty face… I prefer a man who has sex appeal and confidence. Keep yourself clean and work on the confidence.. which I know doesn’t come easy for us with SA. If a man doesn’t have a job or aspiring to do something to financially stabilize himself which will stabilize a future family..Hello.. a woman is going to reject that man. As long as a man is working hard, standing up straight with confidence and knows what he wants in this life… they will all come running. Women love eccentricity…the exciting ones, anyway.. Take that SA and be mysterious and sexy…be spontaneous and creative. Don’t come off as desperate… hang back until you are comfortable to get close..women like that. Men are lucky! men could be fat or funny looking.. if they are funny or have a great personality they could have a beautiful woman. Don’t worry one day you will find someone that will love you unconditionally and she will be that someone you actually want.

]]> By: Kim Johannesen http://shyandquiet.com/2008/06/06/do-looks-matter/#comment-19678 Kim Johannesen Tue, 01 Jul 2008 13:24:16 +0000 http://shyandquiet.com/?p=252#comment-19678 Hello I now know that physical looks may get you in the door, but your personality is what will get you invited back. I am myself a recovering Social Phobic from Denmark. I consider it a fact that your point about looks and personality is right. There is no doubt in my mind that looking good is a big advantage all through life -especially if you have an allright personality. Sadly I believe that our reptilian brain plays a bigger role than we imagine when it comes to looks, money, scent and matchmaking. I do believe though like you that confidence building can get you on track when it comes to partners -it just takes longer compared to a great looking person. Have a nice day Kind regards Kim Hello

I now know that physical looks may get you in the door, but your personality is what will get you invited back.

I am myself a recovering Social Phobic from Denmark. I consider it a fact that your point about looks and personality is right.

There is no doubt in my mind that looking good is a big advantage all through life -especially if you have an allright personality.

Sadly I believe that our reptilian brain plays a bigger role than we imagine when it comes to looks, money, scent and matchmaking.

I do believe though like you that confidence building can get you on track when it comes to partners -it just takes longer compared to a great looking person.

Have a nice day
Kind regards
Kim

]]> By: anon http://shyandquiet.com/2008/06/06/do-looks-matter/#comment-19113 anon Sun, 08 Jun 2008 18:18:31 +0000 http://shyandquiet.com/?p=252#comment-19113 Its always hard when it comes to women. You never know what they are up to. I've never been sure if a girl is interested or not! I'm average, and i have had no luck what-so-ever. And it sucks. It feels like women are too picky these days. Like i always say, its not my fault women aren't interested in me!!! Its always hard when it comes to women. You never know what they are up to. I’ve never been sure if a girl is interested or not! I’m average, and i have had no luck what-so-ever. And it sucks. It feels like women are too picky these days.

Like i always say, its not my fault women aren’t interested in me!!!

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