Years ago, while still living at home and attending high school, there was a person who lived a few blocks down the street from my parents house. Back then, anything different or out of the ordinary was scrutinized, not only by children and youths, but by the adults of the community as well.

The individual in question was a 40ish man who no one really knew very well. He was rarely seen in public, and it seemed that years would pass before there was an actual sighting. There had been rumors that he was mentally ill – and Im sure that many children were warned by their parents not to talk to him and to avoid any contact in the event that he might venture from his lair and begin lurching down the quiet streets in search of prey. (more…)

When I started high school, I decided that I would become someone different. After all, no one knew me – our family just moved into the area – it was like wiping the slate clean and starting from scratch. I practiced all summer – things like positive self-talk, smiling, and acting more confident. I thought of some of my favorite people, whose confidence I admired, and tried to mimic their traits. (more…)